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I’m Pam Jarrin. Creative strategist, new mom, fashion lover, and forever a hot mess.

I created Embrace the Mess to help women like me turn chaos into confidence and own their magic even when life feels messy AF.

I believe your story, your style, and your struggles are your superpower. You don’t need to have it all together to be a total badass and I’m living proof.

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Recent Posts

August 23, 2025

“Breastfeeding is a Full-Time Job. Where’s My Paycheck?”

Breastfeeding is beautiful, but let’s be honest; it can also be messy, exhausting, and way more complicated than anyone tells you. Between latching struggles, endless pumping sessions, and late-night Google searches about “is my milk supposed to look like that?” it can feel like a full-time job without pay. This blog is your no-BS guide to making it easier: real talk, practical hacks, and the products that actually help. Because mama, you deserve to feel supported, not stressed.

Messy:   Woman   |   Love   |   Mom

Life’s chaos doesn’t cancel out your wins, it hides them. That’s why I created Badass Moments: tiny victories that deserve big recognition. Whether you brushed your hair or made it through bedtime without crying (too hard), this post is your reminder that even the smallest wins are still badass.

July 28, 2025

Badass Moments: Why the Little Wins Matter More Than You Think

July 14, 2025

Is It Postpartum Depression or Just Isolation? Or Maybe… Intentional Bonding?

Lonely? Overwhelmed? Obsessed with your baby but ghosting everyone? This post breaks down PPD, isolation, and intentional bonding. Plus 5 hacks to stay sane AF.

Messy:   Woman   |   Love   |   Mom

Postpartum skin feeling rough? Your breast milk might be the glow-up you didn’t know you needed. Packed with natural nutrients, it hydrates, heals, and brightens no chemicals, no fancy price tag. Celebs use it, and now you can too straight from the source, mama.

June 20, 2025

Breast Milk for Skincare: 5 Benefits + Simple Morning & Night Routine for Postpartum Moms

June 19, 2025

Declutter Like a Pro: Transitioning Your Closet from Summer to Fall with the Pyramid Method

Closet overflowing? Learn how to declutter like a pro using the Pyramid Method. Perfect for a fall fashion refresh with smart Amazon finds and zero decision fatigue.

Messy:   Woman   |   Love   |   Mom