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Don’t know where to start?
Just follow your yes.

Who’s behind ETM?
Meet Me

What’s possible?
Find Your Vibe

Where's the inspo?
Read The Blog

Because confidence, comfort, and cute things can absolutely coexist.


Faves for Every Messy Season.

find your fave

my faves

Which Mess Are You In?

That's me!

For the independent woman navigating adulthood one chaotic moment at a time.
Curated blog posts, picks to make life easier, outfits hotter, and vibes stronger because thriving in the mess starts with the right essentials.

Messy Woman

Still figuring it all out?

still learning

For the woman in (or out of) love, figuring out relationships, self-worth, and style.
These blogs and faves are your flirty, motivational, healing, and feel good essentials to help you glow through the chaos and romanticize your damn life.

Messy Love

Loving someone... or learning to love yourself?

i got this!

For the mom making it through the wild ride of motherhood, messy buns, blowouts, and all.
These blogs and faves were picked to make your life easier, comfier, and a little more “you” in the middle of it all.
You're not just surviving you’re thriving.

Messy Mom

Lost in the chaos but still showing up?

Your glow-up starts with one good fave.

Enjoy the Results

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Everything here was written and picked to help you feel good, grounded, and like you again.

read & Shop with Intention

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What do you need most? Pick your current vibe, read the blogs that fit to your mess, shop what speaks to your chaos, or subscribe the newsletter.

Choose Your Vibe

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Start by choosing the season of life you’re in right now.

Pick Your Mess

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get ready to find some inspo based on your vibe

Trust The Process

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Picking your mess was just the beginning.
Now it’s time to dive deeper into the mess in the best way.

Welcome to The Messy Edit: where hot takes, style inspo, real talk, and badass life advice collide. Whether you’re crying in the car, thriving in chaos, or somewhere in between, this is your space to feel seen, laugh through it, and own every beautifully messy moment.

Because life’s a hot mess, and that’s where your magic lives.

The Messy Edit 

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