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I’m Pam Jarrin. Creative strategist, new mom, fashion lover, and forever a hot mess.

I created Embrace the Mess to help women like me turn chaos into confidence and own their magic even when life feels messy AF.

I believe your story, your style, and your struggles are your superpower. You don’t need to have it all together to be a total badass and I’m living proof.

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Woman in cozy chic fall outfit with oversized white sweater, green trousers, and white sneakers walking confidently in a city street.

October 2, 2025

Fall Wardrobe Reset: 5 Cozy Chic Pieces Every Messy Woman Needs

If you are like me, you are super excited for October, fall, and spooky season, but thanks to global warming or Mother Nature being in a mood (just like me), we never know what to expect in fall. We know it will get chilly, but then out of nowhere we’ll have a 70+ degree day […]

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