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I’m Pam Jarrin. Creative strategist, new mom, fashion lover, and forever a hot mess.

I created Embrace the Mess to help women like me turn chaos into confidence and own their magic even when life feels messy AF.

I believe your story, your style, and your struggles are your superpower. You don’t need to have it all together to be a total badass and I’m living proof.

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August 23, 2025

“Breastfeeding is a Full-Time Job. Where’s My Paycheck?”

Breastfeeding is beautiful, but let’s be honest; it can also be messy, exhausting, and way more complicated than anyone tells you. Between latching struggles, endless pumping sessions, and late-night Google searches about “is my milk supposed to look like that?” it can feel like a full-time job without pay. This blog is your no-BS guide to making it easier: real talk, practical hacks, and the products that actually help. Because mama, you deserve to feel supported, not stressed.

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