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I’m Pam Jarrin. Creative strategist, new mom, fashion lover, and forever a hot mess.

I created Embrace the Mess to help women like me turn chaos into confidence and own their magic even when life feels messy AF.

I believe your story, your style, and your struggles are your superpower. You don’t need to have it all together to be a total badass and I’m living proof.

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June 20, 2025

Breast Milk for Skincare: 5 Benefits + Simple Morning & Night Routine for Postpartum Moms

If you’re a new mama juggling feedings, spit-up, and soul-level exhaustion, you might’ve noticed your skin looks… different. Blame it on hormones, sleep deprivation, or just the beautiful chaos of postpartum life. But here’s the wild part: the same magical milk you’re using to nourish your baby might be the best clean skincare secret you […]

Messy:   Woman   |   Love   |   Mom

Alright, fabulous hot messes, it’s that magical time of year again—the moment when we swap out our breezy floral summer dresses for cozy knits and chic boots. But before you dive headfirst into pumpkin-spiced (I prefer just pumpkin not spice) everything, let’s talk about something that’ll make you feel even more accomplished than baking that […]

June 19, 2025

Declutter Like a Pro: Transitioning Your Closet from Summer to Fall with the Pyramid Method